Some expect you to help them to be there when you're needed. Some expect you to let them down, to hurt them, to do them wrong. Some expect you to fail, some to succeed.

None of this matters.

I make my own goals, my own decisions, and I decide my expectations for myself.

Other people can help you decide, sure, but if you let other people make those decisions for you, you lose yourself in a morass of contrary expectations.

And once you lose yourself, you have nothing left.